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06-25-2008, 06:56 AM #1
A True American-Indian Story (ONE EXTRA BEDROOM)
ONE BEDROOM FLAT...
WRITTEN BY AN INDIAN SOFTWARE ENGINEER..
A Bitter Reality
As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in
Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA ,
The land of braves and opportunities.
When I arrived in the USA ,
it was as if a dream had come true.
Here at last I was in the place where I want to be.
I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years
during this time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India .
My father was a government employee and after his retirement,
the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.
I wanted to do some thing more than him.
I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed.
I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards.
Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos
and 2 years watching the foreign exchange
rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.
Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have
only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within
these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight.
Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for
all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks.
After reaching home I spent home one week going through
all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting
shorter I was forced to select one candidate.
In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get
married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays.
After the marriage, it was time to return to USA , after giving some
money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after them, we returned to USA .
My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she
started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India
increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week.
Our savings started diminishing.
After two more years we started to
have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us
by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked
me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.
Every year I decide to go to India ?
But part work part monetary conditions prevented it.
Years went by and visiting
India was a distant dream.
After couple more years passed away, much to my children's
dislike and my wife's joy we returned to India to settle down.
I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my
savings were short and the property prices had gone up during
all these years. I had to return to the USA ...
My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to
stay in India ... My 2 children and I returned to USA after
promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.
Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an
American and my son was happy living in USA ... I decided that
had enough and wound-up every thing and returned to India .....
I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a
Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is
for the routine visit to the nearby temple.
My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.
I wondered was it worth all this?
My father, even after staying in India ,
Had a house to his name and I too have
the same nothing more.
I lost my parents and children for just
ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.
Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing...
This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these
children are losing their values and culture because of it.
I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright...
Well at least they remember me.
Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will
be performing my last rights, God Bless them.
But the question
'Was all this worth it?'
I am still searching for an answer.................!!!
IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???
LIFE IS BEYOND THIS ?..
DON'T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE AND MONEY??..
START LIVING IT ??.
06-25-2008, 06:58 AM #2
06-25-2008, 07:05 AM #3
damn, thats a bitter truth, thats why they say foreign countries are meethi jail.....u wanna go back but u can't....thanks for sharing
aww thanks payal, luv ya too.
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06-25-2008, 07:10 AM #4
06-25-2008, 08:17 AM #5
It is the bitter truth
People do so much to come here, but at the end what is it that they get?
Hardly anything and they can't even go back because of various reasons.
Tfs sheraziAn Everlasting Summer Romance --- In Process
06-25-2008, 10:27 PM #6
My dad came here and made it big.
*shrugs* Fate was on his side, I guess. =D
06-25-2008, 11:17 PM #7
im thinking that was it worth it to read all of that... ah the time waste :/
06-25-2008, 11:32 PM #8
06-26-2008, 07:52 PM #9
*sigh* read all of it
and the thing is that it can happen and does happen to many people
glad it didnt happen to my family
06-15-2009, 05:32 AM #10
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hey thnx for posting this show,
but it seems I have seen this reality around me!!!!!!!!!!!
06-15-2009, 05:37 AM #11