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    Are you with the right partner ?

    Makes you think.......
    Am I with the right partner?

    During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right
    person?" the author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next
    to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all
    seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question
    because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the
    author. Here's the answer.

    Every relationship has a cycle...In the beginning; you fall in love with
    your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like
    their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a
    completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO
    anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

    People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Picture the
    expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing,
    and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and
    spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being
    together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY
    relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they
    come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your
    spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
    The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice
    a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love
    and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you
    and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?"
    And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may
    begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when
    relationships breakdown.

    The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person;
    it's learning to love the person you found.

    People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for
    fulfilment. Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes.
    Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a
    hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer
    to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within
    it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You
    could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same
    situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key
    to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's
    learning to love the person you found.

    SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to
    work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And
    most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make
    it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are
    specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there
    are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws
    for relationships. If you know and apply these laws, the results are
    predictable. You can "make" love. Love is therefore a "decision". Not
    just a feeling.

    Remember this always "God" determines who walks into your life. It is up
    to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you
    refuse to let GO.

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    Kal Ho Na Ho
    Join Date
    Aug 2008
    India & Cambodia


    Thanks for sharing



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