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Thread: Unbreakable Marriage Rules!
05-29-2010, 07:42 AM #1
Unbreakable Marriage Rules!
Relationships are a sensitive arena for us humans. After all, the individual differences creep in all the time…and thus, no two couples are similar! Sometimes it takes movements to realize that you are with that special someone where as in other cases, it takes a lifetime. But once you know, you would want to spend the rest of your life with that special someone and you would want that life to start that very movement itself.
But as time passes, the sparks tend to disappear which are usually substituted by the pressures of the daily chores, children and ultimately leads to fights. Agreed that every couple has its own set of fights! However, keeping the sparks alive needs mutual effort to be put in. After all, just like any other aspect, there are rules for marriage as well. So, here’s what you can start doing incase you belong to one of those couples which need to enliven their sparks:
Anger is always the evil in any relationship. So, Rule No.1: Never end the day with a fight! Understood that you are tired and stressed after a whole day at work but fighting would only worsen the situation. It’s best to leave the situation till you are fresh to think upon with an open mind.
Honesty is the key to any successful relationship. Being honest helps keep both the partners on an equal level. The key point to be noted here is that the spouse cares and is concerned about you. So, being honest and open about all aspects is the best policy. This would be the best way to respect the partner.
Try and not to stay apart from each other from more than a day. We are already living in a fast paced world where time is a constraint. So, try to spend the little time that you have together. Take a vacation together…it is the best way to relive the days of the old!
Try and avoid having a fight as far as possible…it is simply the road to divorce. Here, avoiding does not mean restricting yourself. Try and find better ways to resolve conflicts. This could be done without blaming one another during the process. In other words, try to be healthy in your approach.
Having children means responsibilities…they should always come first! But this does not mean that your relationship should take a backseat. That is an absolute NO! Your kids would only be happy if they that their parents are happy being together. Thus, both should be equally prioritized. Make out time for everything!
It does not end here. There are many similar aspects as a relationship means two people being together as one. And so, working on being together is of utmost importance. Do share in your views!...being a human...